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Ch ch ch ch changes…..

Yet again a long gap in posts, hopefully this will be less so now, now that “changes are coming” or to be more accurate MAY be coming, we wont know yet, not for 7 days.

It is however time for change (hence the clock in the pic, I do think about this stuff you know, I don’t just make it up as go along…..) So I have made several changes to the blog layout, well not so much the layout, more the tabs along the top and a few other bits, some juggling and tweaking, that’s been long overdue.

I know I could have called this post changes without the additional ch ch’s but I came all over over all David Bowie and when I thought of the word changes I couldn’t help but think of the song.

Moving on, the blog now has more of a resemblance of how it will be looking for a while, possibly with some further additions and tweaking but nothing major, although the header pic may well change soon, depends what happens in 7 days.

Just to update you briefly on the events of the past month (since last post) Claire and I have been continuing to be predominantly flatline, with the occasional play, well, until recently, we are now at the stage where things may well change from that and one of us will be offering their submission to to the other for a period of time.

We are still not together properly, but that is getting ever closer and I can’t wait, the change that may be occurring we were hoping to wait until we were together to instigate (or allow to develop) but situations may cause it to be sooner, all I can say is watch this space (apologies, a corny saying, but quite apt)



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No, I don’t mean like that, well actually I have been doing that too, just sent Claire a video of me wanking, that’s one of my rules, I have to do so every week, regardless of whether I am with her not.

The “playing” I referred to in the title however was not that one, I meant playing with the blog (again)

This time I have added a new tab ^^^^^^^ up the top there, a tab that links to a new section that details my “current” rules, these are obviously subject to change and often evaluated and reviewed, with changes being made where necessary. The changes may be a “slight tweak” or a dropping of the rule completely, its dependent on many things and I’m sure that at times certain rules or rule changes will be mentioned in posts anyway, but we thought it was time the rules had their own section.

The section differs slightly from the ongoing activities one in that they are everyday rules that can and do change, as opposed to fixed activities that are ever present (until Claire decides otherwise of course)

I have also amalgamated (that’s a lovely word) the My Domme and My Sub sections into the More About Us section as it makes the bar at the top look so much tidier, we do like tidy 🙂

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……. of the stamp……

I have been playing, no, not like that, well yes, of course like that (when allowed obviously) but that’s not what this short post is about.

The playing I refer to is with the blog, I have added an email link in the about us section (plus one on the sidebar that I have tried to make unfriendly to spammers but it may be quickly removed if not lol)

Claire and I were talking and we thought it would be nice as it gives other options for those that may be too cautious to comment but would like to say or ask something.

It may get used it may not (it doesn’t really matter) and equally it may be a resounding flop and vanish after a short period of time, but for now its there 🙂

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Initially when Claire and I decided to publish our thoughts, adventures, desires and activities via the medium of “a blog” we thought that each having a separate blog would work well. One (this one) my sub blog and the other being Claire’s blog, the one that would be used mostly was this one with me posting and Claire leaving comments etc. Claire had planned to develop hers over time and the two would of course be inextricably linked.

Well, that has changed now (as a side note Claire often “changes” things “because she can” as I found out earlier tonight when I though my bottom would be plugged for a while, I will go into this in more detail in the next post as I have been told to expand on the last post anyway so it fits nicely) anyway, I digress.

Instead of Claire having her own blog separate to this one, this blog will go from being “my sub blog” to “our  blog” we will both post at varying times and the “tags” accompanying the posts will denote who wrote which post, although I’m sure it will be easy to tell lol. It also doubles as a way of searching for anyone that wants to read Claire or my posts in succession.

So from now on (I will go back and add relevant tags to old posts) any posts written by Claire will carry the tag Claire and any written by me will carry the tag, wait for it, Paul, I hope that makes sense.

So a bit of a change but not one that will detract from the blog, besides, the blog serves one central purpose and has since its inception, for both Claire and me to enjoy, hopefully someone else may do to at some point, but we certainly have and will continue to do so.

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