Posts Tagged ‘love’


Not in excess (or INXS) …….. (that lot with the famed lead singer, the “did he or didn’t he die of autoerotic asphyxiation” one)  nor do I mean to excess (no group of that name)……(although there no doubt is, probably an INXS tribute band, not looked but bound to be)

No, the excess I refer to is the excess time that has lapsed since the last post appeared on this blog, over a month, inexcusable behaviour, there was actually only one post in the whole of May (but then you probably know that if you are still tuning in) like I said, appallingly inexcusable and unforgivable, ok, I’m probably overdoing it (just slightly lol) but I was surprised when I realised how long it’s been since the last post.

I have been meaning to post for a few weeks (Claire herself has been meaning to as well) but things really are hectic at the moment, for both Claire and me, hence the sporadic nature of posts at present.

As a (brief) update, things between us have been amazingly excellent (as always) but incredibly busy in a vanilla sense, we are both hopeful that in a few months when things settle down and we are properly together then some sort of sustained pattern may emerge, either way we will both be much more relaxed, at ease and most importantly together 24/7 which is the main thing.

For now we have both been predominantly flatline, although for a period of a few weeks we did maintain the Claire Dominant Paul submissive pattern that I alluded to in the last post, but since then we have both at times been Dominant and at other times submissive, I know that may be confusing for those sticking with the blog and still reading this (thank you) and for both of us it was initially a little confusing but we are both very comfortable with it now, it suits both our needs/wants at present (given the demands our vanilla lives are currently placing on us) and it is enhancing our knowledge of each other (and ourselves) greatly and bringing us even closer together, so all in all its really rather good, we are both incredibly lucky to be so secure and in tune with each other that we can adapt to things around us and react accordingly, making very little sense now am I lol……………..

On that note I will finish the post, to recap (so you know what’s happening, sort of) at present I am not Claire’s boy (full time, only on occasions), nor is she my girl (though on brief occasions she has been) we are both very much flatline and sporadically responding to cues we are each feeling or the other is sending, I’m still making no sense am I……. Suffice to say our love for each other is incredibly strong and growing all the time (apologies if it sounds corny but it’s true)

Ps in case you wondered my nipple is fully recovered and able to partake in any play required of it (as we found out earlier today lol) I think a similar thing would suit Claire (that will provoke a response) ………………………. 🙂


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I think I have made my point, talking of which………………..

Well, one of them does, point I mean, obviously though both do, after all, its the one thing you can rely on a nipple to do isn’t it, point, maybe not always, but I’m sure we all have nipples that have at one time or other pointed, going off topic a bit sorry.

Actually I’m not, this is another post about nipples I’m afraid, no, I’m not obsessed (well ok maybe a little but that’s another post for another time) this post is just a quick update on my own (nipples) well nipple to be more precise but I would hate for (the non pierced) one to get a complex and think it wasn’t as important or loved as much hence me saying nipples, not nipple.

I feel I should also say that I am not attempting to set a new record for the number of times the word nipple (or nipples) is said in a post either, its just me trying to explain myself, honest.

So this nipple, I mean these nipples, well as the pic says, they are happy, my name is Paul and I have happy nipples 🙂

Is there a support group for people with happy nipples, I don’t know, maybe, maybe unhappy nipples, my name is Paul and I have unhappy nipples, I don’t, obviously, I just said that for effect.

Moving on…………… at the risk of alienating my right (your left)….(not yours)…(as you look at it I mean) nipple, my left (your right)….(must be nice to always be right) nipple is quite a happy one (they both are for different reasons).

It is healing nicely, looking very healthy (and happy) and causing very minimal discomfort, to the extent that any discomfort is actually quite pleasurable now, that’s the level its reached. I have just got out the bath (I do love a bath) and undertook my nightly clean (there is a morning one too) and it was actually quite pleasant, prior to now cleaning has been an uncomfortable chore due to the discomfort caused when “tampering and fiddling” with the bar, thankfully this stage has passed, I cant wait for the morning when I can clean it again lol.

So as not to neglect my right (your left) nipple, wearing thin isn’t it sorry, not my nipple, that would be awful, I mean the my left your right stuff, I will stop………….. I have……..

My right nipple is actually as happy as my left (pierced) nipple, the reason for this is simple, due to the freshness of the piercing the left nipple is out of bounds so to speak, Claire is being incredibly kind and not tormenting it at all, this therefore means the right nipple takes the brunt of any frustration is the centre of any attention directed towards my nipples, all in all 2 very happy nipples.

2 very happy nipples attached to an incredibly happy sub 🙂 thank you Claire 🙂 for everything 🙂

PS the nipple count was nipples 12 and nipple 14, can you imagine……………..

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A picture speaks a thousand words

Or at least so the saying goes 🙂

I have personally never been to Egypt, maybe one day.

I do love my mummy though x

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