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Something new

Well, it DID look as if there were going to be changes, and there are.

We’ve decided to mix things up a bit and now I’m the submissive one.

I’ve been submissive for many years and last year we spent 131 days in a MALE/female oriented relationship and we had a lot of fun. Then, of course, we had a swap around…and had just as much fun.

Yesterday, my submission was accepted and I now have a list of 10 (TEN??!!) rules to follow. No pressure there, then!

In time I will divulge them but for now I must re-acquaint myself with bloody WordPress as I have been told to take over this blog. Doing the occasional post was all well and good but having to do it more often is just going to confuse me as I have a vanilla blog on Blogger and I am much more used to using that.

I’ll be back…


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From Claire

As a brief introduction to myself, I thought I would just write a few words.

I won’t be posting as often as my lovely boy but I will post when I feel the desire to. Until now, I have mostly been instructing Paul on when to post and the subject matter I’d like him to post about. I’m hoping that, with the added incentive of my input into what was ‘his’ blog, he will now feel more able to post without me having to tell him to.

I look forward to it becoming ‘our’ blog.

This is me. Welcome.

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1st Post (proper)

I thought it best to explain a few things before the blog gets under way properly, hence this post, its a post of an explanatory nature…….

Firstly the more astute and observant of you will have noticed that not only do I refer to the person I belong to as Claire but also, interchangeably, as my Domme. I should also add she is my true love , my life partner, my soul mate and my very best friend (amongst many many other things will which will no doubt become clearer/known as this blog progresses)

Our relationship is so much more than a Domme and her boy/sub and because of that we both recognise how very lucky we are, it is also because our relationship is such that we no longer use the capitalisation that is often seen and used in many D/s relationships. I say that in case anyone reading thought “what a rude and disrespectful sub he is” … “ he doesn’t refer to his Domme as Her and uses a capital I for himself and even a capital P for his name” …. I can assure you I am VERY respectful of Claire and any rudeness on my part or disrespect, if I dared show any, is addressed immediately by her (thank you Claire).

I very much hope this blog will develop and grow as solidly and enjoyably as our relationship has and maybe even serve as a source of information, ideas and above all enjoyment for anyone that may stumble across it. But please bear with me as this whole blogging thing is a totally new concept to me so it may take me a while to get my head round it, in saying that I am told I am a fast learner (surprising what a bit of “encouragement” can do lol) so it may not be too bad 🙂

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Hello world!

I say hello world (well I didn’t the title was there already) but what I actually mean is hello me (its ok I often talk to myself, its ok, really) and of course (and most importantly) hello to my truly wonderful and lovely Domme, Claire, without whom I wouldn’t be here writing any of this (thank you Claire).

The reason I’m saying hello to us 2 instead of the world is that as of this moment in time its only us that know of this blog so until anyone else stumbles across it hello world seems a bit optimistic lol.


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